Of Cheese and Choices
We have youth group with a bunch of 11-14 year olds after church, and eat lunch on the way through. I discovered last Sunday that cheese is not a favourite for some Dinka Sudanese people. Arok abandoned his main course in disgust, ate a few more strawberries, and then reached for the apple and custard rolls. He looked suspiciously at the custard centre. "Oh, no! Is this cheese, too?" After explanation, and a very careful taste test, he decided custard is sort of acceptable!
"Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility regard others as better than yourselves. Let each of you look not to your own interests, but to the interests of others." We were examining these are verses from Philippians 2. Some our members are on a fast track learning English as their second language. We worked out that "do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility regard others as better than yourselves," might mean "Don't be up yourself." Slang gets learned fast!
Then we looked at "Let each of you look not to your own interests, but to the interests of others," and how these words might speak to us today. I asked what would happen if next Sunday we had lunch after youth group, and went down to the local shopping centre. Where would we go? I took a straw poll. The majority vote was for the pizza place. Significantly, two of the Dinka people wanted KFC- chicken. I asked how we would decide which place to visit.
Ross said we could have a vote. I agreed, but said the problem with votes was that someone wins, and someone loses. If we voted we would go to the pizza place, then Arok and Grace would miss out, because you don't get Pizza without cheese. That wouldn't really be a case of each of us "looking not to our own interests, but to the interests of others!"
"I know," said Ross. "We could go to a place where there is a Pizza Hut and a KFC together, and then everyone could have what they wanted! We would all be happy."
Kids just get it. We talked about how the Uniting Church doesn't vote, if possible. We use consensus decision making, so that we can go forward together. Having to vote on a course of action is really a failure! "Let each of you look not to your own interests, but to the interests of others."
Andrew Prior
Direct Biblical quotations in this page are taken from The New Revised Standard Version Bible, copyright 1989, Division of Christian Education of the National Council of the Churches of Christ in the United States of America. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
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